July 31, 2009

SAILers Get Religion

This was a week of new cultural insights. In one of our weekly meetings, some SAILers had expressed a desire to delve deeper into the cultural subtleties of the Lao people. Why are there different ways to “nop?” Why do the designs on some sinhs mean? Although these are questions that cannot easily be answered in a short course, and may require expert opinion, I have tried to do my best to help the SAILers find some answers. My plans coincided nicely with the absence of the professor of the Lao History & Culture class, who had to travel to Cambodia for the week. In her absence I could find guest speakers and opportunities to augment their regular learning.

The first speaker I found was Charles Alton, an agriculturalist by trade, but ethnic minority enthusiast at heart. I had little time to prepare him for the talk, but he quickly put together a presentation of the four main ethno-linguistic groups in Laos (most of which lived outside Vientiane). Although I had previous knowledge of these groups from having lived here, most of the SAILers did not. Charles gave some history of their migration to Laos, general characteristics of the groups, and some background on their animistic beliefs. He especially held our attention when explaining the difference between house spirits (or “pii”) and those living in animate objects (trees, rivers, etc.). It’s important for these ethnic groups to talk to, and constantly appease these spirits, lest they anger them and bring problems onto themselves and their families. He said one danger was the fact that those working on development projects in these areas, and who don’t respect these animistic traditions, can create lots of unnecessary tension between themselves and villagers. There should probably be a “Pii Handbook” readily available for all those intending to work with these communities!

To round out the religious discussion, the group paid a visit to Wat Ongteu in central Vientiane. The Wat is well-known because of its Sangha College. When we arrived, we were greeted by one of the Head monks of the school, as well as other Buddhist scholars. I loved that the discussion was an open forum, where we could pose any question we wanted. We covered everything from the color of their robes to whether it’s a violation of the precepts to smoke (which created a little debate among the monks) to the role of women in the temple. But the cultural bonus the SAILers received was spending time with the monks in their territory, seeing how they interacted with us and each other, and even use computers during the discussion. The monks were incredibly gracious to us and very enthusiastic about our visit. “If you have time, please come back and visit! And if you have any questions, you can email us!” Buddhism in the modern age. Before we departed, they asked to take pictures with us, and even said it was OK to stand. But the SAILers, ever culturally-conscious, kneeled down in front of the monks. Maybe they didn’t have much to learn after all!

Our temple trip occurred on the same day as a scheduled class field trip to That Luang. There, the Buddhist ceremonies were brought to life for us by our Achaans. With Yaeng acting as interpreter for those few words (ha!) the SAILers couldn’t catch, we learned how gold bars inscribed with Buddhist writings were placed all around the stupa, but were taken by the Siamese (Thais) when they invaded Laos. We learned that the parts of the stupa that curved outwards were Lotus flowers, and that during the That Luang festival, the Lao walked around the stupa 3 times — once for the Buddha, once for the Dhamma, and once for the Sangha. I had done this myself years ago, but not until today did I know why! After this week, I am confident that the SAILers have deepened their knowledge of an extremely important aspect of Lao culture in a comprehensive way. They heard from a foreign researcher, Lao monks and their English interpreters, and Lao teachers. I’d say this exceeded any classroom lesson they could’ve gotten!

July 31, 2009

A Little Frustration and Kids

When I speak with the people I am close to here in Laos, sometimes I feel like I am a pro at Lao language: I can understand what they are saying and can talk easily with them. Other times, I feel as though I have never studied Lao in my life! Especially when I am with a larger group of people, there are times when I cannot even pick out the words I know already. Once I slip out of a conversation in a situation like this, it is easy for me to zone out and think about other things.

This can be a little disheartening at times, since I would really like to be able to speak Lao well. It can also make me a little uncomfortable since I don’t really know what exactly is going on. When I am uncomfortable or nervous, then it becomes hard for me to respond when people talk to me! One of my goals is to become more comfortable in larger group settings (when people only speak Lao of course!). I am trying to push myself out of my comfort zone and into this sort of setting. This weekend, actually we will be going on a homestay. This will be a really great opportunity for me to have some complete immersion experience! I just hope I can say what I need to!

I am not sure why, but the children in Laos are just adorable to me! Volunteering at a school, I am lucky to see many throughout the week. I just want to play with them and hope they will help me practice my Lao! Unfortunately for me, the kids here are so shy, and I mean shy. Many a time I try say “hello” to the children, and I am lucky if they even say “sabaydii” back. That’s why I was so surprised when I was sitting reading at Patouxay (Victory Monument) and a little girl walked right up to me. We started talking a bit and then I began to help her with her quest for little snails (I’ve never seen snails before coming to Laos). I was very happy to chat with her and even learned how to say the name of some bugs in Lao.

At Donkoi, a few of the children are starting to warm up to me, too. On Monday I played “Simon Says” (Thevada Vao) with the youngsters. At first, they were too shy to pair up with me when Simon told us to get into groups of two. Soon the kids didn’t mind me though! There is even one girl who visits me every time in the craft room. Even the smallest interaction with children here in Vientiane really makes me so happy!

Something interesting about colloquial Lao: The first time the girl at Donkoi saw me, she called me “Falang.” Although in Lao this actually means French, many people use this word to refer to foreigners.

July 31, 2009

Saying Goodbye is always HARD!

Today was my last day at volunteering and I have to say it was a more touching departure than I would have expected it to be.  I have really enjoyed my time at Sethathirath Hospital in their Pediatrics Ward.  I have met a lot of nice, hardworking doctors, nurses and medical students and after saying goodbye to them today, it solidified my hopes of coming back to work in Laos.  Not many would find the hospital a place to feel like a second home, but I did.  Everyone that I had the pleasure of working with made me feel like I was one of their own, even though I had only been there for such a short time.  There was even something special about the patients and their families.  There was a kind of warmth shared between them that I don’t see too often.  I also got the opportunity to witness the patience and respect that the staff and patients had for one another.  I know this has a lot to do with the Lao culture, which makes people fall in love with it whenever they are here.  Before I left, we all took pictures and everyone told me they hoped that I would return to visit, if not to work, and wished me a safe trip home.  To my surprise, the staff presented me with departing gifts, which made me feel as happy as a little girl getting her top listed gift for Christmas.  I can’t believe they took the time out for me.  As I felt when I visited my family last week, I should be the one offering gifts because they are the ones who had invited me into their home and allowed me to learn beside them.  There is no gift that I could ever offer to express my gratitude to them for such a life learning experience.

July 31, 2009

Proud to be Indentified as Lao

We SAILers are coming into the last stretch of our grand adventure in the beautiful country of Laos. We are all full of anticipation of our return, yet we feel a great sense of sadness in the thought of our inevitable departure back to the USA. We have all grown to love our new homeland and as for me I have come full circle, to understanding and feeling a sense of gratitude to my parents for encouraging and at times “enforcing” the Lao culture upon me when I was younger. For so long I had this other identity in the shadow that I knew existed and I was often reminded in the mirror or when a stranger would ask me, “Where are you from?” In the past, I had always felt as if I was a fraud. Although I looked Lao, (although it is now debatable since my arrival here), and I’ve had a lot of exposure to my culture and spoke Lao at home, I never really fully understood nor appreciated the little subtleties of being Lao. I have realized that it is not just what you do, or how you speak, or what you eat. It is a way of life, how one lives one life in a way that is simple, at peace and in harmony within yourself and your lot in life. With all the historical tragedy that befell Laos for centuries, there is no sense of bitterness, ego, or aggression from the Lao people. They are stoic in their hardships, gentle in their manners, generous with their possessions, enthusiatistic in their celebrations, reverand in their worship, and eager for the recognition they rightly deserve in the world. It is remarkable to see how the people of Laos go about their daily routines with easy smiles and with pride and in their children. Transactions have a personal touch with a bit of curiosity and giggles to foreigners. Vices and offenses are quickly and subtley reconcilliated and loosing face is averted, and it is rare that one holds a grudge and dwells on the offense. Of course this account is not true for every Lao person, like all people, there are differences, however, I feel confident that most Lao people are described as such people, the kind of people I am proud to be identified as. I hope to find some Lao people in the greater Los Angeles area who will remind me of my heritage and assist me in keeping up with my Lao. Incredibly I can now write in Lao. If the economy gets worse for the teachers, I can always park myself on the Santa Monica pier and sell colorful name art in Lao!!!!

July 31, 2009

Countless thoughts

I woke up in the morning thinking that I was in the States….shocking?  It may be that I haven’t gotten much sleep lately…..let’s see tonight.

I came in to volunteer in a high school English class at LAC.  I was surprised the way the students conducted themselves in class.  I was shocked to see that the students would walk in and out, come in  late and gossip.  I was very disappointed to witness the behavior of the students and the lack of the respect they had for their teacher.  She was a teacher from the Philippines that taught English. Even though I didn’t get hands on today, I hope she will include me in the learning process so that the youth will start to respect the time and effort she has put into the classroom.  I will also help out again tomorrow but with a different teacher.   Hopefully it will be a different experience.

I brought Eileen to get a hand-made dress yesterday.  It has a Lao American twist…customized the total shabang!  For $16 and some loose change.  It can’t get better than that.

We have a Lao language exam tomorrow so I have to study extra hard…because I’m the only student that has to catch up. =(  Luckily I have Sankerdas (I nicknamed him Twilight because when Eileen first saw him she thought of Edward in the movie Twilight) to help me with my Lao.  But I feel bad that he has to make time out of his busy schedule…so I really do appreciate his effort and help.  The other Lao language partners have been real flaky so I really do try to make the best of the lunchtime interactive for our LSBT “Lao Study Buddy Time.”

I am also in the process of planning our farewell party on August 6th.  I have random activities for the event but now I have to find a venue…

I got my memory stick fixed but I haven’t checked it yet. 16 gigs of pics and vids. I hope to see them soon.